What Coaching Is . . . AND . . . What It Is Not?
In our Level I seminar – Leadership Coaching for High Performance, you create a list in response to this question – What Is Coaching and What Is It Not? Here are some of your responses:
What Coaching IS | What Coaching Is Not |
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Full presence | Multi-tasking |
Non-judgemental | Judgment |
Partnering | Mentoring |
Now, add your own:
What Coaching IS | What Coaching Is Not |
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Role Clarity
Another topic of our learning is the importance of Role Clarity which is another form of Certainty/Clarity. Marcia Reynolds, says it best when she says this,
“There is no such thing as hybrid coaching.”
Furthermore, she says, you are either coaching or you’re doing something else.
Role Clarity is a way to get certainty about who we are as we do our work with others. Two roles in particular are often confusing, especially to the person with whom we are working. So, for the sake of clarity, let’s take a look at the difference between Consulting and Coaching.
Consulting | Coaching |
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Based on diagnosed weakness | Based on strengths |
Often focuses on the past | Present and future-focused |
Based on content and process expertise | Based on process expertise; content-free or content-neutral |
Group or organization focus | Individual focus |
Expected to have and give answers | Listens and refrains from giving advice |
Tells what they know | Sets aside what they know to allow new, different, personal answers to arise from within the client |
Hired to “fix” perceived weaknesses with groups or organizations | Hired to build capacity by focusing on perceived strengths of individuals |
Your Words of Certainty:
And finally, nothing speaks more powerfully than your own words of clarity about what coaching is. Here is evidence of your clarity about what coaching is and what it is not. These are some of the quotes you have created that demonstrate your understanding.
“Coaching is a CONTINUOUS PROCESS that provides self-worth, improves confidence, and allows a safe space for reflective conversation in order for growth to take place.”
“Coaching is a continuous opportunity to motivate and inspire a growth mindset by developing positive relationships and reflective practices.”
“Coaching is meeting someone where they are and empowering them to continuously grow in order to improve student outcomes.”
“Coaching is a partnership built on positive relationships for continuous growth.”